Remote sensing scene understanding is a highly challenging task, and has gradually emerged as a research hotspot in the field of intelligent interpretation of remote sensing data. Recently, the use of convolutional neural networks (CNNs) has been proven to be a fruitful advancement. However, with the emergence of visual transformers (ViTs), the limitations of traditional small convolutional kernels in directly capturing a large receptive field have posed significant challenges to their dominant role. Additionally, the fixed neuron connections between different convolutional layers have weakened the practicality and adaptability of the models. Furthermore, the global average pooling (GAP) also leads to the loss of effective information in the acquired features. In this work, a large kernel sparse ConvNet (LSCNet) weighted by multi-frequency attention (MFA) is proposed. First, unlike traditional CNNs, it utilizes two parallel rectangular convolutional kernels to approximate a large kernel, achieving comparable or even better results than ViTs-based methods. Second, an adaptive sparse optimization strategy is employed to dynamically optimize the fixed neuron connections between different convolutional layers, achieving a favorable connectivity pattern for capturing abstract features more accurately. Finally, a novel MFA module is used to replace GAP, so as to preserve more useful information while weighting the recognition features, thereby enhancing the discriminative and learning abilities of the model. In the conducted experiments, LSCNet achieves the best recognition results on three well-known remote sensing aerial datasets when compared to the state-of-the-art methods (including ViTs-based methods).