Hanwell Lunatic Asylum is widely recognised as having been emblematic of Victorian British asylums, for which it represented a therapeutic model. It was nevertheless a relatively atypical institution in its way of treating male and female patients, and this was in no small part due to the personality of John Conolly, its medical superintendent from 1839 to 1852. His political convictions, deeply rooted in utopian socialism, made him less inclined to conform to middle- and upper-class social norms of the time, which tended to limit women in their social and intellectual aspirations. More typical was the undeniable tendency in the institution to strictly separate the male and female spheres, the medical profession having long been a field traditionally reserved to men. The situation was nevertheless quite different within what might be called the “social sphere” of the asylum. Here female staff played a key role, under the authority of the matron. This paper will seek to demonstrate that, despite genuine restrictions and limitations imposed on female patients and nurses – many of which were in fact imposed on both genders, and were denounced by female staff and chaplains – the asylum could nevertheless appear as a safe place for women to gain access to education, leisure and social interactions, and could even offer them some kinds of professional opportunities.