Mobile elements known as T-DNAs are transferred from pathogenic Agrobacterium to plants and reprogram the host cell to form hairy roots or tumors. Disarmed non-oncogenic T-DNAs are extensively used to deliver transgenes in plant genetic engineering. Such T-DNAs were the first known targets of RNA silencing mechanisms, which detect foreign RNA in plant cells and produce small RNAs that induce transcript degradation. These T-DNAs can also be transcriptionally silenced by the deposition of epigenetic marks such as DNA methylation and the dimethylation of lysine 9 (H3K9me2) in plants. Here, we review the targeting and the roles of RNA silencing and DNA methylation on T-DNAs in transgenic plants as well as during pathogenesis. In addition, we discuss the crosstalk between T-DNAs and genome-wide changes in DNA methylation during pathogenesis. We also cover recently discovered regulatory phenomena, such as T-DNA suppression and RNA silencing-independent and epigenetic-independent mechanisms that can silence T-DNAs. Finally, we discuss the implications of findings on T-DNA silencing for the improvement of plant genetic engineering.